There’s a new breed of women out there. They are empowered. I am one of those women and I understand what it means for me. Life is a full body experience. I have new questions and ideas that thankfully I can share with my other empowered female friends. There’s a whole world of endless possibilities. We as women are the ones creating it this new world. I understand that when one of us can see it, then others can too.
I think its interesting that prior to this we had been asleep to much of our power. We projected it out onto others, gave it to men and authority figures in our lives in order to remain small. We let other people make our decisions and to tell us who we were. It’s taken years of self reflection and lots of inner work to see this is unending process of change, growth and expansion in becoming. Not just women but all of us our becoming new humans. Some of us are far more aware than others as to what that means. A glimpse into my life would have you hearing people suggest I record the conversations I have with others because they are so interesting…perhaps daring and oh so real!
Some of my thought provoking questions in these conversations include the female anatomy. One in particular is; “why isn’t it talked about that only women have a body part that is built only for pleasure and nothing else?” Don’t you think that if men had a body part that was only made to enjoy and receive pleasure that every young girl would be taught how important that is to know and to be aware of how to please it? The penis held that status and we all did learn how important it was to please. But the penis wasn’t build only for pleasure, men urinate from it as well.
I think it’s a crime that it’s not publicized and honored that female clitoris was only made for pleasure. The reason I think that information is so important is because women’s pleasure was stolen from her and its time she now receives. I also find its important to publicize this organ because of the fact that it isn’t necessary for a woman to have an organism in order to make a child. She doesn’t have to cum in order for her egg to be fertilized. Which would mean that many women who have come before my time could have passed through life having given birth and gone on to her grave without ever having experienced an orgasm. Isn’t that sad?
Why were we designed with one body part that was only built for pleasure? I would think that signified the importance of women receiving pleasure. And that it would be an important area to know and to learn about. Why not educate both women and men about learning how this pleasure principle liked to be touched, licked or played with? I would imagine the whole world would be a whole lot happier if this kind of education were not controlled by religion and government. For God sakes it’s our God given body part. We didn’t go out and order this part. It was installed and manufactured by God without our choosing. Why did the women before us denying it? Hide it? Shame it away to a place called “down there?” Religion.
Did it take a new President to release the Pussy? I think its time we as women grab our own pussy’s and teach men how we like to be touched, tasted and pleased….slowly. Maybe we like something different every time. Maybe its not something you figure out and memorize? It’s time we talk more about this. Until we do, most men will keep on thinking they know what we like, as if we are all the same or that we always like it the same way. It’s not true men.
There’s no way a man can give a blanketed statement that he’s sooooo good at sex and believe that makes it so. Also not true. Let the woman your with decide that but first realize that each woman is different in the ways she enjoys being touched, loved and pleasured. She may be too shy to tell you so you do what you already know and you think its good because the last woman liked it. It may take the man asking and being patient to learn in order to know what your woman likes. She certainly didn’t have a lineage of empowered women leading her to between her legs but since you happen to be the one that’s there, consider how much you could help her learn more about her own pleasure by considering she might be learning what pleases her for the first time because YOU TOOK THE TIME.
The other day, I was talking to a man who is 2 years out of a 20 year marriage. The last several years of his marriage he said they didn’t have sex. He also hasn’t been with anyone sexually in the last two years plus since his divorce. When I asked him about going so long without sex, he quickly replied he has no concerns in that department because he knows he’s good at it. He boasted a confidence about it in a way that I felt almost sick to my stomach. He’s out of touch with his body, his own sexuality and with pleasing women. Remaining virginal for years doesn’t make someone good at sex. He might be confident in his mind around sex and believing he pleased his wife early on but that’s not proof. His wife could have faked it. Sadly this man had absolutely no sexual energy coming off of him, even while he spoke about sex. A man feels completely different to a woman when he embodies his sexuality. There’s energy that comes off his body below his waist. His sexuality doesn’t stop in his mind but it extends to below his neck. There’s even a heart energy that is tied to it that has his whole body speaking to a woman from more than just his mind. We as women feel and sense energy. A man who is sexual and comfortable with his sexuality becomes more attractive when he understands that every woman is different and that getting to know her body is important and takes time.
Being good at sex isn’t just about the man. I understand we, as empowered women, are a new breed AND I’m trusting that there are plenty of men out there, who are able and willing to learn and grow with us, not only sexually but emotionally and spiritually as well. We need you MEN; to honor and support our growth and we will do the same for you!